Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
Margaret Paul, Ph.D., best-selling author of eight books, including "Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By You†and co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding healing process. FREE Inner Bonding course at: <a href="http://www.innerbonding.com" title="http://www.innerbonding.com" target="_blank">http://www.innerbonding.com</a>. Phone sessions available. mailto:margaret@innerbonding.com.
Articles by this Author
Fear of Failure: What Does Failure Mean to You?
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published Today
- Self Help
- Unrated
What do you believe about failure
The ego wounded part of ourselves, the left-brain part of ourselves that has been programmed with many false beliefs, often believes that:
"If I fail, I am a failure
10 Keys to Inner Peace and Joy
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 01/4/2009
- Self Help
- Unrated
Inner peace and joy are spiritual gifts The gifts of Spirit enter the heart when we make the choices we need to make to be available to them
Parenting, Education and Children: Fostering Openness to Learning in Children
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 12/8/2008
- Parenting
- Unrated
What makes one child excited and another fearful about trying new experiences
What makes one child put forth extensive effort toward something and another give up easily in discouragement
Does Your Life Lack Meaning?
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 12/6/2008
- Self Help
- Unrated
Vera sought out counseling with me because her doctor advised her to discover the emotional causes of her chronic fatigue Vera, a successful stockbroker, was in a loving 18-year marriage
Health and Nutrition: Feeling the Effects of Food
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 12/3/2008
- Wellness, Fitness and Diet
- Unrated
If you are a junk food junkie or you often don't eat well and are unconcerned with health and nutrition, why is this Everyday we read about or see on TV how sugar, soft drinks, many kinds of fats, fried foods, factory farmed foods, devitalized, packaged and processed food, pesticide laden food, and other kinds of junk food cause illness
Why Do You Blame?
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 11/22/2008
- Relationships
- Unrated
Take a moment to think about who you blame for your feelings of hurt, anger, resentment, aloneness, emptiness, loneliness, helplessness, inadequacy, shame, depression, anxiety, fear, and so on What is really going on inside when you blame someone else for your feelings
Parenting: What Praise Helps and What Praise Harms?
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 11/15/2008
- Parenting
- Unrated
"…telling children they're smart…made them feel dumber and act dumber"
--Mindset, by Carol S
Moving Beyond Negative Emotions
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 11/9/2008
- Self Help
- Unrated
"Sooner or later, all of us must see that negative feelings toward another person is like tossing dust at him while the wind blows against us It all comes back
Verbal Abuse, Emotional Abuse - Overt and Covert
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 11/2/2008
- Relationships
- Unrated
Our society is filled with verbal and emotional abuse, from radio and TV commentators and presidential candidates, to parents, educators, employers and managers As Patricia Evans states in "The Verbally Abusive Relationship", the old adage, "Sticks and stones can break my bones but words will never hurt me," is not at all true
Connecting With Loved Ones
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 10/30/2008
- Relationships
- Unrated
As social beings, our desire for connection is a deep and powerful force within us Babies who do not experience connection with a caregiver do not thrive or may even die
7 Rules For Saving Your Marriage
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 10/22/2008
- Marriage
- Unrated
Is your marriage in trouble
The first question you need to ask yourself is: "Do I want to save this marriage or do I want to leave it
Relationships: Empathy Vs. Responsibility For Feelings
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 10/20/2008
- Relationships
- Unrated
William grew up with a mother who was depressed much of her life As the oldest of three children with a father who was not around much, William took on a lot of responsibility for his mother's wellbeing
Caring: For Outcomes or For Joy
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 10/10/2008
- Self Help
- Unrated
Many people have the ability to truly care and receive joy when caring from the heart Yet even very caring people sometimes find themselves using caring as a form of control
Relationships: Letting Go of Problem Solving
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 10/1/2008
- Relationships
- Unrated
"We never seem to be able to solve any problems," Kaylee told me in a phone session "Every time we sit down to solve a problem, we end up fighting
Do You Feel Free?
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 09/29/2008
- Self Help
- Unrated
"…no one ever pushes you toward freedom You need to take that for yourself
Relationships: The Power of Good Will
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 09/19/2008
- Relationships
- Unrated
Research into good marriages indicates that the most important choice healthy couples make is to have good will toward each other This may seems like a simple requirement, yet many couples have anything but good will toward each other
How Can I Stop Feeling Jealous?
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 09/4/2008
- Relationships
- Unrated
"I know that my boyfriend loves me, but he has a lot of women friends I don't get why he has to have so many women friends
You're Not Meeting My Needs
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 09/1/2008
- Marriage
- Unrated
"Sandra wants to end our marriage," Ted told me in our phone session "She says that I am not meeting her needs
Emotional Intimacy
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 08/21/2008
- Relationships
- Unrated
Experiencing emotional intimacy with others is one of the most satisfying experiences of life Emotional intimacy, or a sense of deep connection with another person or a group of people, occurs when each person is completely open hearted and devoted to taking 100% responsibility for their own feelings and needs
Gratitude vs. Complaining
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 08/14/2008
- Self Help
- Unrated
"All happy people are grateful Ungrateful people cannot be happy
